Thursday, July 28th, 2005
Life is the process of finding love,
every person will need to find four people in their life.
First person is you,
Second person is the one " you love most "
Third person is the one who " love you most "
And the fourth is the one " you spend the rest of your life "
In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love most, and learn how love
feels.
Because you know how love feels,
so you can find the person who loves you most.
When you have experienced the feeling of loving others and being loved,
you will then know what it is you need most.
Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you,
to be able to spend the rest of your life with.
Sadly, in real life,
these three people are usually not the same person.
The one you love most doesn’t love you.
The one, who love you most,
is never the one you love most.
And the one you spend your life with,
is never the one you love most or the one who love you most.
(He/She) is just the person who person who happens to be at the right place at
the right time.
Which person are you in other people life?
No person will purposely have a change at heart.
At the point in time when (he/she) loves you,
(he/she) really loves you.
But when (he/she) doesn’t love you anymore,
(he/she) really doesn’t love you anymore.
When (he/she) loves you,
(he/she) can’t pretend that (he/she) doesn’t.
Same goes,
when (he/she) loves you no more,
there’s no way (he/she) can pretend (he/she) loves you.
When a person doesn’t love you and wants to leave you,
you must ask yourself is you still love (him/her),
if you also don’t love (him/her) anymore,
do not keep (him/her) just to save your pride.
If you still love (him/her),
you should wish (him/her) happiness,
and hope that (he/she) will be with the one (he/she) loves most,
not stop (him/her) from it.
If you stop (him/her) from finding true happiness with the one (he/she) loves, it shows you already don’t love (him/her),
and if you don’t love (him/her),
what rights do have to blame (him/her) for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive,
just like the moon,
you can’t just take it down and put it in your basin,
but the moonlight still shines upon you.
In other words, when you love a person,
you can use another method of possessing the person.
Let (him/her) become a permanent memory in your life.
If you really love a person,
you must love (him/her) for what (he/she) is.
Love (him/her) for his good points, and the bad,
you can’t wish for (him/her) to become what you want (him/her) to be just
because you love (him/her).
When you really love a person,
you can’t find a reason why you love (him/her),
you only know that no matter when and where,
good mood or bad mood,
you will wish to have this person be with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems without
asking for promises or listing criteria.
When two people are in love,
They love to ask each other to swear,
to make promises.
Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?
Because they don’t trust each other,
they don’t trust their lover.
These swear and promises are useless,
till the sky falls, till the ocean dry,
my love for you will never change!!
We all know that the sky will never fall,
the ocean will never dry,
even if it does happen,
are we still alive by then???
Be careful when making promises,
don’t make promises that you can’t keep.
In relationship, what you say is one thing,
but what you do is another,
the one saying,
doesn’t believe,
the one listening,
also doesn’t believe.
source: bulletin board Friendster
author: NN
